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Marriage Redefined: Young Evangelicals in Crisis
Breakpoint ^ | May 28, 2015 | John Stonestreet

Posted on 05/28/2015 5:51:04 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o

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This diagnosis applies across the board: Catholic - Protestant - Evangelical - Jew.

Root cause of the collapse of the marriage culture: the severance of the unitive and procreative meanings of marital sexual union.

1 posted on 05/28/2015 5:51:04 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o
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To: Mrs. Don-o

Quakers are not evangelicals.

I am not even sure they are Christians


2 posted on 05/28/2015 5:55:19 PM PDT by Fai Mao (Genius at Large)
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To: Fai Mao
Quakers are not evangelicals. I am not even sure they are Christians

Listen... do you hear it?

There's a million Leftists laughing at your post - it's so incredibly perfect!

Keep up the good work - strict religious purity for conservative votes is the only way to make sure freedom will be properly limited to the right kind of godliness.

3 posted on 05/28/2015 6:01:37 PM PDT by Talisker (One who commands, must obey.)
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Why attack that poster? You didn’t even post anything challenging his statement, which sounded sincere.

I’ve never heard that Quakers are Evangelical Christians either.

“Are the Quakers Going Pagan?
The liberal end of the Society of Friends has long had members who denied God’s existence or Jesus’ divinity. Now hundreds of pagans call Quakerism home.”

http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2008/aprilweb-only/118-11.0.html


4 posted on 05/28/2015 6:06:58 PM PDT by ansel12
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To: Fai Mao

Marriage has been marriage since ‘way before Christ’s appearance to form His Bride, the True Church of regenerated believer-disciples.


5 posted on 05/28/2015 6:07:22 PM PDT by imardmd1 (Fiat Lux)
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To: Mrs. Don-o

[[[Colson: “We Christians are very good at saying No.” We must be more positive about God’s blessings and sex for procreation, blah, blah.]]]

I liked Colson’s preaching overall. He was a great Christian leader and powerful evangelist.

But he is dead wrong about Christians saying “no” too much. Most American Christians, pastors,ministers and priests stopped saying no a long time ago. They stopped reciting the Ten Commandments. They took up prosperity gospel and praise band happy talk like “you are so beautiful God” and “I run into your arms, God” (God is my girlfriend?).

Most of all Christians stopped going to confession, teaching their children about sin, or mentioning sin from he pulpit except in the most general namby-pamby terms (forgive us our sins (which ones?), amen, goodbye).

No Christians don’t say no too much. They rarely say it at all.


6 posted on 05/28/2015 6:08:19 PM PDT by heye2monn
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I was thinking of that as I posted it: is this a Quaker college or an Evangelical college? I don't see ow it could be both.

it would be significant to find out what the religious composition (as contrasted to the religious "label") of this college actually is.

7 posted on 05/28/2015 6:10:16 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o ("You can observe a lot just by watching." - Yogi Berra)
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The Quakers I have met were almost Unitarian/Universalist.

They didn’t believe in a Hell but, everyone goes to Heaven. They held to sort of a fuzzy social gospel and had no problem with supporting all sorts of un-Biblical positions.

If that is not representative of them as a group then I apologise but the ones I have met practiced a theology that was so extremely non-biblical that I couldn’t see how they thought they were Christian.


8 posted on 05/28/2015 6:11:37 PM PDT by Fai Mao (Genius at Large)
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To: Mrs. Don-o

I know several couples(including my husband and me) who realized this truth several years into our marriage, specifically the procreation aspect. We viewed it much as the current students, but God removed the scales from our eyes. At 41, I am so grateful for the bonus children He gave us. Right now I am outside listening to my 4 and 2 year olds sing “I have the Joy, Joy,Joy Down in my Heart” while they climb and play. Had we stopped at the four children we decided we would have, we’d be missing out on so much happiness.

To be fair, even my grandparents’ generation viewed having children as an optional choice in marriage. We are just now extending the unbiblical view to include all kinds of depravity.


9 posted on 05/28/2015 6:14:44 PM PDT by NorthstarMom (God says debt is a curse and children are a blessing, yet we apply for loans and prevent pregnancy.)
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What difference does it make? Nobody’s buying the, “You made a commitment, now suffer through making a life, model anymore.

Are we actually arguing over whether input related to the Quakers is relevant? Talk about missing the point, welcome to extinction!!!


10 posted on 05/28/2015 6:18:33 PM PDT by Tax-chick ("I'm in yer chair, beebing some buttons." ~ Kathleen)
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To: Mrs. Don-o
I have never met a Quaker. I don't think they are "evangelical."

Quakers, interestingly, are specifically named in Indiana state law as not requiring a marriage license.

11 posted on 05/28/2015 6:19:27 PM PDT by John Leland 1789
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To: Mrs. Don-o

>> Root cause of the collapse of the marriage culture: the severance of the unitive and procreative meanings of marital sexual union.

Not to argue your valid point, but that’s actually the *proximal* cause.

The *root* cause is satan, himself.

This nameless, faceless, insidious, ruthless, all-pervasive push to destroy the institution of marriage as GOD defined it is a textbook example of “...the rulers of the darkness of this world... spiritual wickedness in high places...” against whom we Christians must wrestle. (Eph. 6:12)

The main battle is taking place in the heavenlies; we are merely proxies here on earth.

The situation is serious but not dismal. [SPOILER: I peeked at the ending — we win. :-) ]


12 posted on 05/28/2015 6:22:38 PM PDT by Nervous Tick (There is no "allah" but satan, and mohammed was his demon-possessed tool.)
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To: Mrs. Don-o
As Rine points out “the redefinition of marriage began decades ago” when “the link between sexuality and procreation was severed in our cultural imagination.” . . . and he never once mentioned the evil of contraception. Until that's dealt with we keep spiraling down the drain.
13 posted on 05/28/2015 6:23:37 PM PDT by choirboy
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To: Mrs. Don-o

Not many churches are teaching the biblical foundations as a result people at “christian” in church only but live like a sinner the other 6 days.


14 posted on 05/28/2015 6:23:44 PM PDT by RginTN
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To: Mrs. Don-o
As Chuck Colson once said in a BreakPoint commentary about marriage, “We Christians are very good at saying ‘No.’ But we’ve got to get better at saying ‘Yes’: showing how God’s plan for humanity is a blessing.

This caught my eye. People forget what the onus was for the publication of Humanae Vitae : the original proposition of the public to say, "no" to the unitive and procreative aspects of martial life. The Church's "no" was to their proposition which was, in fact, a yes to life.

It's the same with homosexual whatever-you-want-to-call-it. The Church didn't go looking for this issue. This is coming from the people.

15 posted on 05/28/2015 6:28:53 PM PDT by JPX2011
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That was an odd post to make about the 100,000 Quakers, many who do not even believe in Jesus, and a denomination that is counting on Pagans to increase it’s numbers, being pointed out as not being Evangelical Christians.

Was that a post related to Mormonism somehow?


16 posted on 05/28/2015 6:28:54 PM PDT by ansel12
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As far as I know, to say most Quakers in the USA and the UK are not Evangelicals is not a trashing or belittling statement, it's simply factual. To say otherwise is simply a category mistake.

(I understand there are a lot of Quakers in Africa who are Evangelicals, though, and generally much more conservative n a variety of issues: against abortion and homosexuality, in favor of a "high" view of Scripture --- unlike many Friends in the US and the UK.)

There IS a body known as Evangelical Friends Church International unites evangelical Christian Friends, but I understand that is less than half of Friends. Then there's the Friends General Conference, which is largely Christian-Humanist and Liberal, with also an agnostic/non-theistic faction. Liberal Friends, Conservative Friends, and Pastoral Friends would call themselves followers of Jesus as a spiritual teacher but do not practice baptism or consider the Bible authoritative --- not as authoritative as the "Inner Light."

My Quaker friends over the years ---honorable people--- would be the first to tell you they are not Evangelical.

17 posted on 05/28/2015 6:51:07 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o ("You can observe a lot just by watching." - Yogi Berra)
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There was an East vs. West/Humanistic vs. Orthodox split among Quakers (in 1827), so when George Fox College began in Oregon in 1885, it was founded by the more evangelical Northwest Yearly Meeting of Friends.


18 posted on 05/28/2015 7:19:36 PM PDT by qwertyz
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To: NorthstarMom

I think its great you made your choices.

I think others can make their own choices too.

Not everyone should have kids. If they arent going to do it right and recognize the commitment and need to do it right, they arent resdy for it and shouldnt have them just because others say they should, or whatever other reasons they tell them.


19 posted on 05/28/2015 7:26:38 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man (Gone Galt; Not averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: Fai Mao

Some Quakers streams are very evangelical and conservative in their beliefs, and others are very liberal.


20 posted on 05/28/2015 7:37:17 PM PDT by mongrel
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