If I had a penny for every premarital sex relationship in the last century, I’d be richer than the Clintons. Pre marital sex does not cause broken marriages. I’m sure there are millions of marriages that lasted forever even though they had sex before the ceremony. Been married to the same woman for 39 years, we are still as close as ever, it takes more than sex to keep it going. If the chemistry is there, it doesn’t mater whether you had sex before or not. Telling people to refrain from premarital sex is as helpful as telling people to refrain from war.
Before you start refuting what I said, you best read what I said. If you find that I said that premarital size will cause every marriage to fail, I will give you $100,000.
I said it reduces the chances of a successful marriage. Just like your car won’t always break down when you don’t check the oil and water, but it increases the chances that it will.
The statistics are very clear - and you actually touched on it unknowingly. As premarital sex has become more common, the fewer marriages last.
It’s true, and it doesn’t really matter if you like that truth or not. Just like it doesn’t matter if you don’t want to check your oil.
And yes, you can teach your children not to have premarital sex, and yes, they can resist the temptation. Your final statement is a fallacy.