Do you equate the RCC with the LDS?
The true Body of Christ isn't found in the White OR Yellow Pages. That's what I meant by "invisible".
I'm concerned because your language seems to suggest otherwise. Particularly your language describing the body of Christ as castoffs and downtrodden victims and the mechanism of "revealing" ourselves to one another. Sounds more like the Illuminati or some other secret society than a church.
Ultimately we'll have to agree to disagree on this point. The Body of Christ can most certainly be found in the phone book. Just look under "Catholic". Anywhere where the Eucharist is celebrated you'll find Jesus. I did:
San Secondo D'Asti Catholic Church
250 North Turner Ave
Ontario, CA 91761
P.S.: My prayers and best wishes for healthy grandchild.