The best visual of this for me was a trip to the Northwest Pacific. We attended 10:00 Mass and I noted as we entered that there seemed to be no other children in the entire church except for mine. By the time Mass started no other children had arrived.
Then I noticed six grey-headed people at the front of the church fixing to play their guitars. I hate guitar Masses. They played various updated versions of Kumbiya.
I got the feeling that this particular church did not see many children at what is in most Catholic Churches is the most populous Mass of the week, when a couple of the grey-headed rockers greeted us as we left the church remarking how nice it was to see our children.
That is the legacy of liberal Catholics who have voted for every pro-abort they could get their hands on.
I despise guitars at Mass and I hate seeing Catholics holding each others hands during the Our Father. This is protestantism pure and simple. When I miss Mass at my parish and have to find another Mass, if the congregation starts the hand-holding I never go back.