I'm with you! When in doubt go to the Scriptures.
It's tough though for people raised in a system that does not value God's word as the rule of their faith. My wife's side of the family are former RC's. I watched the process first hand and it was hard for them to shake off the conditioning. Praise the LORD most did, but it was years and decades for some.
Praise the Lord! Same for my DH’s family!