The whole “born that way” argument is a distraction.
Sodomy is a sin. It is a sin whether committed by a person who was born with a desire to commit it, by a “homosexual” who discovered his “homosexuality” at the age of 20, or by a “heterosexual.”
As long as the focus is on categories of people, there will be an “oppressed” group and an “oppressor” group. That is, the Marxist program will prevail.
Our society, on the whole, accepts the sins of (easy) divorce, fornication, adultery, masturbation, and contraception (which is a species of sodomy). It is absurd for those who accept all these sins to turn to those who want to commit sodomy and declare: “No!”
It is because their position is absurd that “traditionalists’ are losing to the revolutionaries.
I disagree and think attacking the argument from this angle demonstrates how weak their "I was born this way" argument really is. There is still zero scientific evidence to support the argument they've used for decades.