Honestly, I think you don’t know Jesus very well.
He did say, “Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart”
The above action of Pop Francis can only signify condolences of abhorrent behavior if one deliberately mistook it too.
Saints have kissed lepers. That doesn’t mean they want everyone to be a leper.
The man is an unrepentant heretic, perhaps a blasphemer. Kissing his hand signifies approval.