RE: “...he still has value.” Value to his lover? Value as a bad example?
How about value as a human being made in God’s image whose values can be redeemed?
Sorry, too much TV and not enough biblical reading. Your description is not to be found in Scripture. Cain was rejected, Esau was hated, Pharaoh was hardened...shall I go on? There is, according to Paul, no distinction between the man and the resultant behavior. The adulterer is denied faith, the incestual man is to be pushed out of a fellowship, not because they are unsalvageable (any more than we are), but because their behavior is evidence that they are being presently excluded. We are to allow God to grieve them and bring them back (if He wishes), but we are not to slather love and affection all over them and confuse the issue. You have watched too much Joel osteen. He is not teaching truth.