Do you have to go to a TLM to find reverence? I have been to NO that have been very reverent.
There are not too many Sunday Masses in our area that are reverent. Our “daily” Masses are pretty good, though. They (6:15 a.m.) are Novus Ordo, and there are no Eucharistic Ministers (or any altar servers). The only strong distraction is the Sign of Peace. However, if there was a daily TLM in the area, we would switch and go there. The two different forms of the Mass (after one has attended for awhile) seem almost like two different faiths completely (in our opinion). How many TLMs have you been to?