[ebb tide]

Simple, it has to be free and open and a contract entered into by mature, consenting people with no outside pressures or motives.

Who witnesses said contract? And who can void said contract?

What you're stating reminds me of free love at Woodstock.

By the way, the "maturity" cop-out has now become a very popular reason many annulments are granted, even if the couples were in their 30's when they got married.

[Kansas58]

So it boils down to the fact that you want virtually no annulments, ever?
Sounds like it is YOU that does not want to study or understand the issues or Church teaching.
Face it: The radical anti-divorce and remarriage crowd needs their own separate Church as that view is not really “Catholic”.