I never understood the whole concept....
You were married, but not really because:
1) they lied about something
2) they weren’t really Catholic
3) you weren’t really Catholic
4) whoever married you didn’t realize there was a Catholic “glitch”
5) You changed your mind, but have sufficient funds to assuage
your foolishness.
So, then, it never really happened and all is cool and you don’t have to kill anyone now.
Do you think a lasting sacramental bond can be built upon a fraud?