Still avoiding the question, I see. I'm not surprised. How many men do you know who receive child support from their ex-wives? How many ex-wives from their ex-husbands? Even in “shared custody” situations.
Why don't you look for some statistics on-line?
You might not like what you find.
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I answered that question by implication. But actually the one divorce in my family did involve the wife paying child support after she had finished law school and had a high-paying job—even though she also had primary custody of the kids.
But in most situations I know, the woman has stayed home with the kids or at least worked the lesser job for more time with the kids, the man makes very good money, and he pays child support and educational costs through college.
He also generally doesn’t express resentment for the arrangement, but again, I seem to live in the land of mensches compared to wherever you live.