Diminishing those on the other side of the discourse does not usually result in edifying them, it doesn't matter how right you are otherwise.
I really did not intend to point that at our FRiends, using it in a more general sense - But I can see why you took it that way, and for that I am sorry. I will try to be more measured in the future.
Nonetheless the principles necessary for 'rightly dividing' remain. What the Word CAN say is limited by what it CAN'T say.