I understand it deeply.
The you would understand that there are seven years left for God to deal with the Jews. He cannot deal exclusively with the Jews if the church is still here. Compare that to the 7 days the bride and groom are secluded before coming out publicaly in a Jewish wedding. The bride of Christ will be in heaven secluded with Christ during the seven years of the tribulation after which they will return with Christ to earth to rule during the 1000 years.