I never said the difference was BIG. I pointed out some FACTS, as expressed by Cardinal Sfeir, who details the distinct difference:
"A married priest has the duty to look after his wife and family, ensuring his children receive a good education and overseeing their entry into society. ... Another difficulty facing a married priest arises if he does not enjoy a good relationship with his parishioners; his bishop cannot transfer him because of the difficulty of transferring his whole family."
Since the priest was married BEFORE he was ordained, his FIRST VOW is to his wife. She and their children take precedence over the parish. Notice the Cardinal also points to the problem of transferring a priest and his family when the situation does not work out at a particular parish. Personality conflicts can and do arise ... not to mention the costs associated with supporting the family, especially given the number of children they have.
And how does the Cardinal end his address to the western bishops?
"celibacy is the most precious jewel in the treasury of the Catholic Church,"
Since the priest was married BEFORE he was ordained, his FIRST VOW is to his wife. She and their children take precedence over the parish >>>
OK, this made the issue more clear to me...thanks...