I urge you to go back and study those texts just a wee bit more.
I am saying? And you tell me I need to study those texts just a wee bit more? Lets look at what the scripture (note: scripture, not me) says.
Ecclesiastes 9:5 For the living know that they shall die: but the dead know not any thing, neither have they any more a reward; for the memory of them is forgotten. 6 Also their love, and their hatred, and their envy, is now perished; neither have they any more a portion for ever in any thing that is done under the sun.
Did you really think that I wrote that portion of scripture? I dont remember even making a comment on that verse. I simply posted the verse.