You probably missed this.
Ecclesiastes 9:5 For the living know that they shall die: but the dead know not any thing, neither have they any more a reward; for the memory of them is forgotten. 6 Also their love, and their hatred, and their envy, is now perished; neither have they any more a portion for ever in any thing that is done under the sun.
Consider it is like having an attorney speaking for you in a court case the chamber of the judge.
So that is how I treat a person who has gone home to God, they are there to pray to the King of Kings at His throne.
I do not agree with your posting.