“I left an SBC church over the issue of Calvinism. I asked if we could sing, “Jesus loves you, this I know!” or needed to sing, “Jesus loves some, are you one?”. I couldn’t get an answer, so I left.”
I left an Arminian church since they were so utterly legalistic and unloving that they sought control over the entire congregation.
I guess the difference would be that there is nothing in Arminian theology that encourages legalism. But there IS something in Calvin’s theology that makes one sing, “Jesus loves some, are you one?”