Praise God! This is a very difficult choice to make, especially since it will mean, in many cases, the shunning of particular individuals by their families at the behest of the LDS. But it is better to be free of a lie, then to remain in it.
Many lds will tell shunning never happens, of course we know that is the lie.
Mormons for the most part are good people...
they have big families and seem to be pretty close knit families ( like Catholics used to be)....lots of children...