As a former teacher, I would normally try to help you understand that I'm not talking about responsibility, but about humility and power. As was pointed out earlier, our education system has gone sideways in the last thirty or so years. So, just read this already provided Biblical exhortation, and start praying.
"If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land." - 2 Chronicles 7:14
You said ONLY God is in charge. What does that mean?