[metmom]

It is my understanding that generally speaking Orthodox agree that Peter is the first among equals (and therefore holds a special place).

That is ludicrous. I don't know how people can rationalize being equal and being first at the same time.

It can't be both at the same time.

Equal precludes having someone in first place. Being first precludes equality.

[verga]

It can't be both at the same time. Equal precludes having someone in first place. Being first precludes equality.

Let me try to make this clear for you. John Boehner is a member of the House of Representatives, at the exact same time is his the Speaker of the House. He is equal to the other Representatives but at the same time holds a place of honor.

You would think that a person that homeschools would have a better understanding of this.