You’re right about the subculture of homoeroticism and homosexuality that sadly exists in part of the Church and its seminaries, but it wasn’t always there.
In the old days, when you went to a seminary, it was drilled into the men who went there that you were to repress your sexuality. But as the 20th Century unfolded, this sickening corruption in the Church grew in influence.
I’m sorry to hear that your loved ones were victimized by perverts masquerading in the cloth, but Benedict XVI has made steps to rooting out the homosexual influence in the seminaries and elsewhere.
Obviously it’s too late for many, but there are now guidelines back in place to cull perverts.
Thank you for your condolences.
The only "step" that has any hope of working is to require all new ordinations go exclusively to married men who are otherwise healthy. Only this can succeed in overrunning the entrenched Lavender Mafia and ousting them forever from power over the faithful.
Obviously its too late for many, but there are now guidelines back in place to cull perverts.
Far too little, far too late.
End the celibacy rule. It's the only way.