One is fat and lazy, one is able to work but thinks it’s “above him” (metal disorder I guess. but he gets no help for it) one learned to game the system from her mother (who is included in the list) one had a husband who was making 6 figures but left the job to be a leader of a “church” who told him to get county assistance for health insurance so she signed up for and got SSD..
They all could work, in some way shape or form. They all flat out refuse to (even a greeter at walmart) and bitch at me because I don’t go along with their “stories”.
I could go on but my wife came from a very screwed up family. Mentally my wife is sharp as a tack and as conservative as can be. Both her and I are the only conservatives from either family.
What a shame there are so many liberals in your family - on your wife’s side. Sounds like they are gaming the system, however, some do receive benefits if they have mental illness. Their records are confidential, so there may be issues you aren’t aware of - other than what you see and hear. Of course, some can probably fake it too - I’m not saying that isn’t a possibility - because it is.
Oh well, the system is broken - what do we do?