actions speak louder than words.....IMO you can stand on a street corner and repeatedly shout out that you've "accepted Jesus" into your heart, but if you go home and beat your children and your wife, cheat on your taxes, watch porn, etc......you have NOT accepted Jesus Christ....
" Being a Christian is kind of like being a lady.....if you have to tell people you are one, you're not..."
You are missing the point.
The really important thing about Christianity is telling other people they are going to hell.