“But if you don’t want a child, how does it make sense to engage in the very activity that produces a child, and then deliberately frustrate it?”
There is a reason some couples refer to it as ‘making love’ rather than ‘baby creation’...
“A better analogy to contraception is a bulimic. She wants all the pleasure of eating without the natural effects of eating...”
What is next - a ban on artificial sweeteners? Why drink a Diet Coke instead of one with sugar? Oh wait, one with fructose. And can I use a seat belt to defy God’s will in sending me a crash?
It is not defying God’s will to use our brains in choosing what we do and how we do it.
Yes, I know 90% of Catholics don't go with this. That's actually one of the reasons we're in such a mess.