For a guy who thinks the discussion is “stupid”, you sure inconvenienced a lot of electrons over it...
The discussion matters because, as the Family of God rejoined through the sacrifice of the New Covenant (Jesus), we should learn about the Heavenly reality. I agree with you that if this were mere conjecture and fairy tale, it is an empty pursuit. If, on the other hand, these are revealed truths that are essential to our understanding God’s plan and purpose... it is far from trivial.
“Christianity, if false, is of no importance, and if true, of infinite importance. The only thing it cannot be is moderately important.” - C.S. Lewis
In the economy of God, there is only truth. Learning and recognizing His Truth is not only important, it is of greatest importance.
I am talking nothing of the sort
You are wasting time and effort (and I have seem some so-called ‘christian’ people behave very un-christian-like) arguing over things that are just plain silly.
Does God want that? Is Mary somehow different if I dont think of her as a ‘queen’ but maybe an Empress?