I think God will step in and bring good out of decisions that perhaps weren’t well-planned in advance. My own marriage might have been considered misguided, but we have both worked with God since then and have a lot of fruit (ten children, and uncountable hours of Scouting, and a Spanish choir, and whatnot) to show for 23-1/2 years.
However, it would certainly be helpful if more people made their plans while diligently seeking guidance from God.
Thanks for telling me that great testimony .. God’s grace and mercy still amaze me.