Excellent post. Thank you for posting. Basically, God knows all and knows why you are dressing whichever way you choose. If it pleases him, then so be it. If it doesn’t, then that’s between you and God.
It is his responsibility, and he takes it seriously, that he will be called to account as the head of his flock. He can not turn a blind eye toward those transgressions.
Recall this Sundays reading where God tells his shepherd that they will be held accountable for their flock if he does not lead them righteously.