[verga]

I'm glad I didn't die...and that I survived to this day, when more people in my life decry you than support you for wanting to prevent my marriage in the name of some cold, removed Church and God

One small question: Why has every single state, including California, that has put he choice up to the people, voted against Gay marriage?

If what she is saying is correct why aren't we seeing this passed by the electorateisntead of my legislators?

[cloudmountain]

Every state that voted against gay marriage did so with voters...that is, USUALLY a small percent of people OVER 21 and INTERESTED in the culture of our society.
The system works because the young don't vote much and the uninterested don't vote because they just don't care beyond flapping their gums.
Just an opinion.