Did either of you leave off the sarcasm tag? I sure hope so.
Nope.
If the lds husband does not call his wife after death, she goes nowhere. (Part of the secret temple ceremony is a new name for the wife)
So the lds wife must be terrified to defy, even question him, then to be called unworthy by her priest husband, then the bishop then the stake president.
Can you imagine what that is like to live under?