Attracting who -- if you don't even know, let alone care, what they believe?
How can you even have a decent dialogue if you don't care about what people believe re: spirituality?
Such a parochial view -- as if your views were the only ones worth caring about -- doesn't sound very personal.
I am not looking for the diaglogue. Hence, what someone else believes is just none of my business. I leave the judging to Him. I receive the Eucharist several times a month. It does not get any more personal than that.
We know that the Orthodox way works. We have no opinion on others. We focus on our own spiritual experience, and help others who are interested.