Gods wants ALL to be saved - that is His plan/purpose/will - He died for ALL.
"This is good, and pleases God our Savior, who wants ALL men to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth".
"The Lord is not slow in keeping His promise, as some understand slowness. He is patient with you, not wanting ANYONE TO PERISH, but everyone to come to repentance." 2 Peter 3:9
"For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and MANY enter through it". "But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a FEW FIND IT."
Now do you think 'man' is responsible for not attaining what God wants/wills?
My first inclination to your question is to ask, are you just asking or do you really want to know what I think? For some reason a few of you think ANY answers that disagrees with your views are insults, though no one has insulted you. You have also answered my comments with quips that tell me, "Who are you to teach me anything? Do you think you know everything?", and so on. So, if you are able to put aside those false contentions, I would be more than happy to discuss this issue with you. However, I will not spend time doing that unless I have some assurance from you that this is both an honest question and that I have a right to my beliefs about it just as you all have been. Deal?