narses:And who is right?
Buy a clue. It doesn't matter.
That is a matter of personal conviction and the people themselves have to answer to God for themselves and themselves alone.
It's not a matter which pertains to salvation and is not addressed in Scripture so it is not critical to have conformity to a certain position.
Catholics need to get a grip on what freedom in Christ is all about. And it isn't about lockstep conformity to the dictates of of their self-appointed leadership.
That cannot be said enough.