Every group has it’s kooks. The examples you gave must be of people breaking the law? Do they get arrested for assault? Is it legal for women to go to the wall?
When people say things I don’t like or agree with in the name of God, I usually just ignore them. I know they don’t influence God. LOL People can yap all they want. But violence against others...that would be a self defence gun thing America.
The women are the ones who get in trouble because they are “praying too loud” or because they are “singing too loud” while dancing with the Torah,which is a celebration.
There is nothing in the Torah that says women can’t read from it.