It doesn’t matter to me if they make it hard for the regular folks and easy for the rich and famous. If they make it easy for the rich and famous it makes an annulment a joke. When a church allows Kennedy and Sinatra to take communion it’s a joke. There is no difference to me between Sinatra’s annulment and my girlfriends’ divorce.
Sounds to me like you have an issue with specific Bishops and specific tribunals yet choose to lambaste the entire Church. That’s akin to blaming all of the Apostles for the actions of one Judas Iscariot.