You are correct on both counts. AFA, not publicizing doctrines, when I was training to be a Mormon missionary, I was told specifically to LIE about certain teachings (or change the subject or dissemble) because it might make people less likely to join.
Mormons tell the public one thing,(like they believe Jesus is the Son of God), but don’t tell them the rest of the story (like he is literally through sexual intercourse the son of God (and Mary who is one of God’s polygamous wives).
I’ve posted this before but will do so again here. It is an example of how the LDS twist and lie about their teachings to make it more palatable...
As to why I lied about LDS beliefs (or dissembled), there is a constantly used phrase/idea that comes down from the leadership of every member a missionary. It means that every member is to try to convert people to Mormonism. Couple that with the other oftused meme of dont do anything that makes the Church look bad and you have an interesting combination. The why gets down to these. It is easier to lie or omit things or twist words than it is to explain what the LDS really believe and risk losing a potential convert or have someone go away thinking less than glowing things about the LDS church.
Every member is expected to find investigators (people who would be interested in converting who take the missionary discussions - similar to RCIA). There is also a lot of people who hear things about beliefs but dont know enough to know what the LDS are saying, that they use different meanings for terms, even though the LDS usually know that Christians mean different things. A typical exchange could go like this...
non - LDS - I have a lot of Mormon friends, and they are nice people, but dont Mormons believe Jesus and Satan are brothers?
LDS - No! We dont believe that at all! Jesus is the only begotten Son of God! Joseph Smith saw Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ and they said that all other churches had some problems and Joseph needed to start a Church that was the same as the one when Jesus Christ was on the Earth. Why dont you come over for dinner and we will have the missionaries talk to you? There is a set of 6 discussions that they give that shows what we believe.
non-LDS - Well, ok, but I read somewhere that Mormons believe they will become Gods
LDS - That was probably written by someone who has a grudge against the Church. They probably are one of the ones who gets paid to badmouth the Church or someone who couldnt live by the principles of the Church so they left or they were offended by someone in their ward.
Ok, lets parse this. Notice how many times the Church is used. For the LDS it is all about the Church. LDS testimonies often start out with I know the Church is true.
Then there is the automatic denial that Jesus and Satan are brothers. We saw it on this a thread the other day even. Now, all LDS know that their church teaches Jesus and Satan are spirit brothers. So why would you get a resounding NO? Because it makes their theology look silly. By stating No the LDS are lying to you, but they are thinking Well they arent flesh brothers, just spirit brothers like we all are, Jesus is our Elder brother. The other day an LDS came on one of these threads and stated Jesus and Lucifer arent brothers, as if by Mary!. Notice the subtlety of it. As if by Mary implying they arent physical brothers (which no one claimed). But they left out That Lucifer was the second born and Jesus was the firstborn of the spirit children.
Next we come to what would appear to be a rebuttal to the claim Jesus and Satan are brothers. Jesus is the only begotten Son of God! what they are not telling you is that they mean it in a literal sense. Jesus and Satan are SPIRIT brothers (like all of us) but Jesus is Gods physical son, God came down, had sex with Mary and conceived Jesus. So it isnt a rebuttal at all and the LDS know that. They are intentionally twisting words to make you think they dont believe Jesus and Satan are Spirit brothers.
Next Phrase - Joseph Smith saw Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ and they said that all other churches had some problems and Joseph needed to start a Church that was the same as the one when Jesus Christ was on the Earth. This is referring to the First Vision (of which there are several contradictory accounts) and the Great Apostasy. The LDS will tone down things said about other Christians. In the first vision account, Smith isnt told that other churches had problems he was told I was answered that I must join none of them, for they were all wrong; and the Personage who addressed me said that all their creeds were an abomination in his sight; that those professors were all corrupt http://lds.org/library/display/0,4945,104-1-3-4,00.html
All wrong, Corrupt and Creeds an abomination are not the same as some problems and the LDS know that. But they will soften it in order to not scare people off or to put the LDS church in a better light.
Next - about becoming Gods. Notice the LDS response is to go down a rabbit hole, rather than addressing the comment. Instead they lead the person to believe that the source was unreliable, or written by someone who had something to gain (money) or a former Mormon with a grudge. The question itself isnt even addressed (lying by omission). It also causes the person to think that they might be wrong and that the LDS dont believe that, even though the LDS person knows they do.
Finally, the invitation to meet with the missionaries. There is an assumption by many that these are people who know more about Mormonism than the average member and that isnt true either. Most men and quite a few women serve LDS missions (I nearly did). They dont have special knowledge. They also dont tell you is the goal of those 6 discussions is to get you baptized Mormon and there is pressure put on you to read the Book of Mormon, pray about it, make commitments and convert. Those 6 discussions arent just a summary of LDS beliefs, they are the requirements for conversion and that is their goal. But they dont tell you that, they make it sound like this is just a friendly way of talking to knowledgeable people about what the LDS believe.
Also, there is the doctrine of line upon line, precept upon precept or milk before meat, that coverts are only told doctrines when they are spiritually ready to hear them. The missionary discussions are the barest of milk. You learn one set of things in them, and then after you convert you start to learn the rest of LDS theology. Then after a year of faithful membership (sometimes more) you get to go to the LDS temple and learn the meat doctrines and are sworn to secrecy (used to have to swear blood oaths).
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/religion/2786065/posts?page=72#72
I missed this post yesterday, but thank you very much for it. I will read it now, but wanted to touch base with you and express my thanks for posting all of that information.