I agree with you post completely. The attempts by Catholics to put everyone in some box is certainly not to just “learn”.
No. It's most definitely to label and judge, as we have seen many times on the RF already.
If they wanted to learn, they could research it on the web or ask questions about whatever it is that they want to know. The information is out there.
What they want to know is not general information about different theology but personal information about individuals.