If the poster I was replying to takes the position we can “push” people away from God by our comportment, it is perfectly legitimate to posit the converse.
That being said, I have no intention of playing proto-Protestant word games with would-be “teachers of the law.”
Whoa, having a bad day?
We can push people away if we are unChristian in our manner toward others.
We can help people find faith by our actions. But it is always the grace of God which brings them to Him.