When did your sister marry? I’ve never heard of this from anyone who married in the Catholic Church. I’m 48, Married in the Church in 96, have known many, many engaged couples who went through Catholic marriage prep in my life, and nobody ever mentioned having such an “interesting” discussion with their priest.
She was married in January of 2009. The priest was very explicit to her counseling group regarding various sex acts that were permitted and not permitted. One could do x but not to completion, etc.. He also essentially told her that she shouldn’t work and her job was to stay home and pop out babies.
TSgt, if I remember correctly, wasn’t your sister married in an SSPV chapel?
If so, it may be better to not call it Catholic or at least specify that she was married by an SSPV priest.