"Joyful in the loss" still implies that they'd rather not be there. It is very much like an illness in natural life: it is something that often comes as a tool of our sanctification, but still you pray for healing and ask others to pray for your healing.
Still, as you say, it would be better not to suffer. But, you know, the little I gave up to be Catholic? No PROBLEM! Income and status are (naughty word) compared to this. Still, I could use the income.... :-)