The grace of God to save me from my sins by the finished work of Jesus Christ would be no reason to be “bothered”. It is something to be shouted. To be lost and then found, to be blind and now see the love of God toward us while we were yet sinners? Hardly something someone would be bothered by when asked the question if he/she is a Christian.
I know what it means to be Christian, you really took one simple little question and went down the “cuckoo for coco puffs” road.
Never mind.