Men are commanded, not asked, to act as strong leaders ready to give their lives for their wives and by extension their families. I don't see how being repressed by a bunch of priests as they abuse children fits with that.
Eph. 5:25 Husbands love your wives just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,
Where is the love of your family that allows deviants to prey on your children or your neighbors child. Men need to stand up and act like they've been told to act.