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Did Mary Have Other Children?
Christian Apologetics and Research Ministry ^ | Unknown | Matt Slick

Posted on 06/13/2011 3:57:07 PM PDT by HarleyD

One of the more controversial teachings of the Catholic church deals with the perpetual virginity of Mary. This doctrine maintains that Mary remained a virgin after the birth of Jesus and that biblical references suggesting Jesus had siblings are really references to cousins (Catechism of the Catholic Church, paragraph 510).

As the veneration of Mary increased throughout the centuries, the vehicle of Sacred Tradition became the means of promoting new doctrines not explicitly taught in the Bible. The virginity of Mary is clearly taught in scripture when describing the birth of Jesus. But is the doctrine of her continued virginity supported by the Bible? Did Mary lose her virginity after Jesus was born? Does the Bible reveal that Mary had other children, that Jesus had brothers and sisters?

The Bible does not come out and declare that Mary remained a virgin and that she had no children. In fact, the Bible seems to state otherwise: (All quotes are from the NASB.)

An initial reading of these biblical texts seems to clear up the issue: Jesus had brothers and sisters. But such obvious scriptures are not without their response from Catholic Theologians. The primary argument against these biblical texts is as follows:

In Greek, the word for brother is adelphos and sister is adelphe. This word is used in different contexts: of children of the same parents (Matt. 1:2; 14:3), descendants of parents (Acts 7:23, 26; Heb. 7:5), the Jews as a whole (Acts 3:17, 22), etc. Therefore, the term brother (and sister) can and does refer to the cousins of Jesus.

There is certainly merit in this argument, However, different contexts give different meanings to words. It is not legitimate to say that because a word has a wide scope of meaning, that you may then transfer any part of that range of meaning to any other text that uses the word. In other words, just because the word brother means fellow Jews or cousin in one place, does not mean it has the same meaning in another. Therefore, each verse should be looked at in context to see what it means.

Lets briefly analyze a couple of verses dealing with the brothers of Jesus.

In both of these verses, if the brothers of Jesus are not brothers, but His cousins, then who is His mother and who is the carpenters father? In other words, mother here refers to Mary. The carpenter in Matt. 13:55, refers to Joseph. These are literal. Yet, the Catholic theologian will then stop there and say, "Though carpenters son refers to Joseph, and mother refers to Mary, brothers does not mean brothers, but "cousins." This does not seem to be a legitimate assertion. You cannot simply switch contextual meanings in the middle of a sentence unless it is obviously required. The context is clear. This verse is speaking of Joseph, Mary, and Jesus brothers. The whole context is of familial relationship: father, mother, and brothers.

Psalm 69, A Messianic Psalm

There are many arguments pro and con concerning Jesus siblings. But the issue cannot be settled without examining Psalm 69, a Messianic Psalm. Jesus quotes Psalm 69:4 in John 15:25, "But they have done this in order that the word may be fulfilled that is written in their Law, they hated Me without a cause."

He also quotes Psalm 69:9 in John 2:16-17, "and to those who were selling the doves He said, "Take these things away; stop making My Fathers house a house of merchandise." His disciples remembered that it was written, "Zeal for Thy house will consume me."

Clearly, Psalm 69 is a Messianic Psalm since Jesus quoted it in reference to Himself two times. The reason this is important is because of what is written between the verses that Jesus quoted.

To get the whole context, here is Psalm 69:4-9, "Those who hate me without a cause are more than the hairs of my head; Those who would destroy me are powerful, being wrongfully my enemies, What I did not steal, I then have to restore. 5O God, it is Thou who dost know my folly, And my wrongs are not hidden from Thee. 6May those who wait for Thee not be ashamed through me, O Lord God of hosts; May those who seek Thee not be dishonored through me, O God of Israel, 7Because for Thy sake I have borne reproach; Dishonor has covered my face. 8I have become estranged from my brothers, and an alien to my mothers sons. 9For zeal for Thy house has consumed me, And the reproaches of those who reproach Thee have fallen on me."

This messianic Psalm clearly shows that Jesus has brothers. As Amos 3:7 says, "Surely the Lord God does nothing unless He reveals His secret counsel to His servants the prophets." Gods will has been revealed plainly in the New Testament and prophetically in the Old. Psalm 69 shows us that Jesus had brothers.

Did Mary have other children? The Bible seems to suggest yes. Catholic Tradition says no. Which will you trust?

Of course, the Catholic will simply state that even this phrase "my mother's sons" is in reference not to his siblings, but to cousins and other relatives. This is a necessary thing for the Catholic to say, otherwise, the perpetual virginity of Mary is threatened and since that contradicts Roman Catholic tradition, an interpretation that is consistent with that tradition must be adopted.

The question is, "Was Jesus estranged by His brothers?". Yes, He was. John 7:5 says "For not even His brothers were believing in Him." Furthermore, Psalm 69:8 says both "my brothers" and "my mother's sons." Are these both to be understood as not referring to His siblings? Hardly. The Catholics are fond of saying that "brothers" must mean "cousins." But, if that is the case, then when we read "an alien to my mother's sons" we can see that the writer is adding a further distinction and narrowing the scope of meaning. In other words, Jesus was alienated by his siblings, His very half-brothers begotten from Mary.

It is sad to see the Roman Catholic church go to such lengths to maintain Mary's virginity, something that is a violation of biblical law to be married and fill the earth.


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KEYWORDS: brothers; cousins; mary; nameonebrother; relatives; stepchildren
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To: Quix; johngrace

Actually, John Grace and I do well enough when we try.

However, as staunch an RC as he is, he doesn’t sound like he’s sold ever cell and fiber to the company store after a lobotomy. So I don’t tend to consider him a ‘normal’ RC.


401 posted on 06/15/2011 10:07:31 PM PDT by Quix (Times are a changin' INSURE you have believed in your heart & confessed Jesus as Lord Come NtheFlesh)
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To: Natural Law
That is because neither I nor the Catholic Church accept the modern doctrine of Scriptural exclusivity; that is the theological construct that all of the Revealed Word is and is only found within the Canon of Scripture and more specifically, within those Pauline letters intended for the Gentiles. It ignores the Word contained within the Apostolic Traditions.

Of course you reject it. Y'all HAVE to reject it because the doctrine of the sufficiency of the Scriptures for the faith excludes such erroneous thinking of men being able to determine, no mandate, what other Christians MUST believe in order to be saved. At one time, the church believed that Apostolic traditions WERE contained within the Bible. In fact, the Bible was specifically honored as the repository of the faith. Of course, this had to change when dogmas were invented that they knew were contrary to the written word. What had to happen was a reduction in the primacy of Scripture and the primacy of "tradition" took its place. Of course, traditions were whatever these men of the time decided they would be. I do not understand the facade of pretending Holy Scripture and tradition are not contradictory. If they were in accord, Scripture would still be preeminent simply because it was recognized as the infallible Word of God. Traditions, as being the thoughts and actions of men, could NEVER be held as infallible because there was no objective source of judging them.

Are you ready to similarly condemn the ministry of Jesus based upon the conduct of His Apostles, in which one doubted Him, one denied Him in his moment of need, and one openly betrayed Him?

No, of course not. However AFTER they were indwelled with the Holy Spirit and completely surrendered to the leading of God, they ceased being in error and denying him. Whenever they taught under the authority of Jesus Christ and by inspiration of the Holy Spirit, they were teaching the whole truth. This truth they later committed to writing and these letters and treatises were dispersed throughout the Christian churches for their edification and knowledge. Those same writings we still have today and their authority and truthfulness is STILL in effect. As long as we hold to them and depend upon God's leading and illumination of the Holy Spirit, we can know we are in the will of God. No one has any license to go out and invent new doctrine and hold all the body of Christ to obey it if there is no Scriptural warrant. Why did the Roman Catholic Church invent the doctrine of Papal infallibility? Something that caused the rift with the Eastern Orthodox? That's not all that separated them. Why did they assume such power to declare something for which there was not only no Scriptural basis but was not even held "traditionally" in the early church?

Of course it doesn't, but although the Church aspires to perfection, it is comprised of people, burdened by original sin and human weaknesses. That is which is is an institution that moves exceedingly and at times painfully slow and distributes decisions, doctrines and dogma across a Magisterium comprised of over 31,000 current bishops and their successors.

I would think any organization that claims such power over the lives of all Christians better have stricter controls over its leaders than has been demonstrated in its history. Perhaps the reason why there is such blatant and gross sin coming to light is to expose to those who weld such power just how unwarranted their self-professed infallibility is to God. For many Christians, the contradiction was all too obvious and when there was no sign of repentance or humility they left. Men like Luther never stopped being Christians they became better ones by standing up to corruption. Rather than kicking him out and persecuting him, the "magesterium" should have gotten on their knees and begged God's forgiveness for their excesses, greed and false teachings. Instead, they stubbornly refused and God continued to add to his church those who were saved - the spiritual body that it has ALWAYS been.

402 posted on 06/15/2011 10:15:00 PM PDT by boatbums (God is ready to assume full responsibility for the life wholly yielded to him.)
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To: Quix
"On sum, I just can’t make a good case for bothering with even an attempt at dialogue with most RC’s on FR."

I suppose we have to ask ourselves the reason we post and then determine the best way to accomplish that. For a long time I believed that I had to defend the Church and fight fire with fire, insult with insult. I have since come to believe, based largely upon my Lenten Prayers and absence from these threads, that the Church has persevered against greater attacks than any Freeper can muster and will continue to do so with or without me. Jesus promised that. All I intend to do is to present the truth to try to correct some misperceptions or outright lies. I have no interest in Proselytizing. The truth will set you free.

What is your purpose for posting?

403 posted on 06/15/2011 10:22:57 PM PDT by Natural Law (For God so loved the world He did not send a book.)
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To: Natural Law; Amityschild; Captain Beyond; Cvengr; DvdMom; firebrand; GiovannaNicoletta; HossB86; ...

Sounds good.

Several purposes . . . the most important for this exchange . . .

To be a watchman—particularly re END TIMES STUFF but also great/gross error etc.

To hopefully serve The Lord Jesus and His Kingdom by the above and the below . . .

to provide those interested . . . particularly lurkers . . .

with an alternative perspective on the more outrageous

idolatries, blasphemies, heresies . . . particularly in the Vatican System but wherever I observe them—even Pentecostalism

and to do so at an emotional intensity level more or less equal to that at which the outrageous stuff is propagated.

to alert folks to END TIMES/GLOBAL GOVERNMENT issues of value to their welfare and their family’s welfare and eternal life.

I could probably blather on about it and I could probably refine it if I had time and energy but that will do for now.


404 posted on 06/15/2011 10:38:30 PM PDT by Quix (Times are a changin' INSURE you have believed in your heart & confessed Jesus as Lord Come NtheFlesh)
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To: Quix
Actually, virtually the only bitterness I see on the FR Rel forum spews from RC’s, an Ortho or so and some agnostics/atheist types.

Those same eyes see Bible codes, UFO's, greys, capsules to heaven, Duplantis consoling Jesus (in person), etc. as real. So, please understand that what you see really doesn't influence me one bit.

Proddys are much more at peace and comfortable with folks earnestly working out their own salvation in Biblical ways as much as lies within them.

Except when they're swinging the faith alone hammer.

When their errors get so outrageous and so brazenly propagated, then some of us feel compelled to speak up as intensely as the propagations of idolatry, blasphemy and horrific heresies.

Speaking up and discussion is one thing. Lies, run-away imaginations, and use of terms like Vatican Cult, Ishtar-Mary, Magicsterium, Rubberized Bible are another that come from hate spewing out of bitterness.

That’s a huge distance removed from any bitterness about it all. Likewise the hate—DITTO.

I suppose if one is looking throught the eyes mentioned above one can see anything a spirit is capable of conjuring up.

405 posted on 06/15/2011 10:47:19 PM PDT by Titanites
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To: Natural Law; boatbums
That is because neither I nor the Catholic Church accept the modern doctrine of Scriptural exclusivity;

MODERN? God's Word always was and always will be. ONLY the proud would want more than God's Word alone - they are the 'JESUS, THE WORD, ISN'T ENOUGH' crowd.

Are you ready to similarly condemn the ministry of Jesus based upon the conduct of His Apostles, in which one doubted Him, one denied Him in his moment of need, and one openly betrayed Him?

Conduct of the apostles? What did they do - rape young children or cover up the actions of those who did? Did they bow to idols? Pray for the dead? They were HS filled and raised the dead and healed the sick. That's His ministry - they had the POWER once they were filled with the Holy Spirit.

Where is that with your leaders? None existent. They dig up the dead to honor them. For being in business for so many years - they produced nothing but more man made doctrine. After 3.5 years - His apostles were changing lives making disciples by teaching the Gospel, The Good News which is ALL about Jesus.

What's the excuse of the 'I'm ALL yours, Mary' church?

That is which is is an institution that moves exceedingly and at times painfully slow and distributes decisions, doctrines and dogma across a Magisterium comprised of over 31,000 current bishops and their successors.

That's their problem - not adhering to God's Word alone. Building up an empire with all it's pomp - instead of being simple servants of The Lord who HEAR and OBEY - is disobedience. No blessings with that 'kiss the ring' attitude as it has NOTHING to do with His Kingdom. Jesus didn't come to start an institution - that's man's idea to honor man.
406 posted on 06/15/2011 11:19:22 PM PDT by presently no screen name ( The Palin Party: The Party of Patriots.)
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To: BenKenobi; smvoice
Every Christian should know their faith and should be able to defend their faith.

There is one faith - the faith of God. And God never changes. His Word always was/will be. Belief in anything else is not the faith of God but faith in man.

Are we both right? Are we both wrong? Is one of us blessed with the holy spirit? Is one of us not blessed with the holy spirit?

Whoever believes God's Holy Spirit Inspired Word is The Final Authority is the one who is Holy Spirit filled.
407 posted on 06/15/2011 11:31:12 PM PDT by presently no screen name ( The Palin Party: The Party of Patriots.)
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To: presently no screen name
Whoever believes God's Holy Spirit Inspired Word is The Final Authority is the one who is Holy Spirit filled.

Which translation? Which edition? Which books included? According to whom?

"... no prophecy of the scripture is of any private interpretation. For the prophecy came not in old time by the will of man: but holy men of God spake as they were moved by the Holy Ghost." 2 Peter 1:21

408 posted on 06/16/2011 3:00:23 AM PDT by Judith Anne ( Holy Mary, Mother of God, please pray for us sinners now, and at the hour of our death.)
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To: presently no screen name

And surely the “one who is Holy Spirit filled” should be manifesting the fruits of the Holy Spirit.

I’m just sayin...


409 posted on 06/16/2011 3:02:12 AM PDT by Judith Anne ( Holy Mary, Mother of God, please pray for us sinners now, and at the hour of our death.)
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To: Natural Law; jacknhoo
I actually see your post as typical of the anti-Catholics who troll these threads

1) I don't troll threads.

... and highly atypical of the vast majority of actual Christian Protestants.

2) Not according to what the vast majority of Protestants are posting here.

It seems contextually, that jacknhoo was stating that the interpretation imposed upon the cited Scripture was ridiculous, not the actual Scripture itself.

3) There is nothing "contextually" offered when one labels an author as ridiculous while failing to present a reasonable counter-interpretation. Relying upon "this is what the Church tells me" is not a very thoughtful response.

The problem with the fringe Protestants is that they actually believe that when they impost their understanding and interpretation on Scripture that they have altered Scripture to fit their beliefs

4) This could be said for the vast majority of Catholics who believe wrongful teaching is AOK as long as it comes from a group of old men held up in fancy digs.

410 posted on 06/16/2011 4:18:14 AM PDT by HarleyD
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To: Quix

Wait! How many threads on this topic do we have to have?


411 posted on 06/16/2011 4:44:45 AM PDT by Mad Dawg (Oh Mary, conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to thee.)
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To: HarleyD; Quix
This kind of argument is difficult. If verse 8 is proof that Jesus' mother had other children, is the opening verse proof that he once was caught in a flood while at the same time sinking in a slough?

This is not a gotcha question. How does one decide that one verse is to be taken so literally as to be proof of something while another verse is just a figure of speech?

412 posted on 06/16/2011 5:08:08 AM PDT by Mad Dawg (Oh Mary, conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to thee.)
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To: gitmo

Amen!

Hoss


413 posted on 06/16/2011 5:56:35 AM PDT by HossB86 ( NOBODY admits to being a Calvinist unless they are one. I AM ONE.)
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To: presently no screen name
"MODERN? God's Word always was and always will be. ONLY the proud would want more than God's Word alone - they are the 'JESUS, THE WORD, ISN'T ENOUGH' crowd."

Modern, as within the last 100 years. The doctrine of Scriptural exclusivity is a product of the fringe Protestant radio and TV ministries that advocate a dangerous version of bibliolatry.

Even working within your self imposed framework of Scriptural exclusivity the heresy of this position is obvious. Jesus is the Word and was the Word made flesh, not a book. Not every word, deed, and teaching example of Jesus is recorded in the Bible.

Further, your notion that Paul supersedes Jesus with respect to the Gentiles and the Word is replaced, "rightly divided", and relegated to a one dimensional shell removes the Christ from your Christianity.

Fortunately, the adherents of your heresies are dying off or converting. As the Church established by Jesus grows the fringe Protestantism crowds shrink. Your church of one is a perfect example.

414 posted on 06/16/2011 6:27:25 AM PDT by Natural Law (For God so loved the world He did not send a book.)
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To: Judith Anne

love,
joy,
peace,
longsuffering,
gentleness,
goodness,
faith,
meekness,
temperance


415 posted on 06/16/2011 7:16:03 AM PDT by Mad Dawg (Oh Mary, conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to thee.)
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To: HarleyD
"1) I don't troll threads."

You must be defining trolling more benignly than I do.

2) Not according to what the vast majority of Protestants are posting here.

Agreed, the lunatic fringe OPC types are way over represented on these threads than their insignificant and dwindling numbers would warrant.

"Relying upon "this is what the Church tells me" is not a very thoughtful response."

It is certainly far more valid a method than relying upon "this is what the voices are telling me" or "this is what that man on the radio says before he asks me to send money" or this is what some 16th century failed French shyster said".

"4) This could be said for the vast majority of Catholics who believe wrongful teaching is AOK as long as it comes from a group of old men held up in fancy digs."

That is purely speculative since the Church is the standard for rightful teachings. I appreciate how difficult that might be to comprehend for the rudderless.

416 posted on 06/16/2011 7:56:24 AM PDT by Natural Law (For God so loved the world He did not send a book.)
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To: Mad Dawg

LOL.


417 posted on 06/16/2011 8:06:29 AM PDT by Quix (Times are a changin' INSURE you have believed in your heart & confessed Jesus as Lord Come NtheFlesh)
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To: Quix
"To be a watchman—particularly re END TIMES STUFF but also great/gross error etc."

Agreed, but the end times began on the cross and will be completed with the second coming. We need not look to the horizon and worry or try to expedite it, No one knows the hour or the day. Our jobs are to live our lives as though it will be tomorrow. We are to preach the Gospel to every living thing. Focusing on Catholics who already do, even though you may not agree with much of our interpretation, is a misuse of your time and talents. Focus on the abortionists, those who exploit the young and cast out the old and infirm. Bring Christ to the atheists, the lapsed, the Muslims, and the Hindus, but please stop banging on devout Catholics.

"idolatries, blasphemies, heresies . . ."

There are certainly a lot of those accusations flying, but repeating them without any dissertation will not win any converts or change any hearts. It will only serve to harden the lines drawn.

I agree that Catholic doctrine can be difficult to understand until one has a comprehensive grasp of the doctrines, language, and definitions used by Catholics. Imprinting modern English definitions onto Catholic theology is often the greatest source for error.

418 posted on 06/16/2011 8:07:18 AM PDT by Natural Law (For God so loved the world He did not send a book.)
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To: Mad Dawg

Of course . . . by

1. CONTEXT.
2. THE REST OF SCRIPTURE
3. HOLY SPIRIT.

And that verse is not the only one mentioning his blood half-siblings by Mary.


419 posted on 06/16/2011 8:08:03 AM PDT by Quix (Times are a changin' INSURE you have believed in your heart & confessed Jesus as Lord Come NtheFlesh)
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To: Mad Dawg

Yeah.

Sometimes, even a poster on the RF can manifest those gifts. Or not.


420 posted on 06/16/2011 8:10:15 AM PDT by Judith Anne ( Holy Mary, Mother of God, please pray for us sinners now, and at the hour of our death.)
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