Thanks and I agree with your advice.
What, however, is the answer to gross violations - which just creates more, exponentially? The classic flame war dynamic seems inevitable.
I’m stumped.
You put out fire with water, right? Adding more fuel just makes it worse. My husband was a firefighter. He said the first lesson they teach is, "Big fire, big water. Little fire, little water.". If someone is flouting the rules, don't join 'em. Step back and let them cool their jets. Be the voice of reason and maturity. I've seldom seen it fail as a strategy. Even the meanest bullies shut up when everybody ignores them.