It is generally said that the characteristics that make one a good priest are exactly the same as would make that same man a good husband and father. That being said, one of the best priests I know is a chaste homosexual. In a moment of candor he once told me "does it really matter who I am not doing it with"? He is a deeply religious man with incredible strength, compassion, and courage.
I’ve met three priests who set off my gaydar. One was young and awkward but I thought he would mature well. The other two were older men, much more polished and experienced, but very self-conscious and concerned with their prerogatives, and Mass was always a performance for them.
One still runs the parish in my town,and there is something creepy and anti-God there.