Is this really a bad thing? If someone cheats on their spouse and the victim of that cheating wants recourse, well whoop-dee-do! There's a nice way to find all of the information the victim would ever need to take the cheater to the cleaners.
It doesn't work that way. 90% of the time, no matter which spouse cheats, the wife walks away with the house, the kids, and a big monthly check.
Take my word for it.