I gotta tell ya GCC, I dont think youre going to convince anyone who is not entrenched and looking for some sort of placebo to justify the church they belong to. I do feel for your position but my advice would be to take a really close look at whats happing today in the RCC.
Just because you may not find it convincing doesn't mean that others won't.
I'm perfectly aware of the real problems going on in the Catholic Church today. There are plenty - including the naiveté of many Catholic prelates concerning Islam.
If anything, a serious discussion concerning Nostra Aetate needs to take place - but CCC 841 is hardly the problem you made it out to be.
Or did you mean something else?