Do you know what is in his heart to know that he was not contrite?
If this man were truly contrite he would not be engaged in ‘Clintonian’ equivocation about the extent of his violation of his vows, and what types of sex are not ‘really’ sex.
“I was wrong, but really it wasn't THAT bad.” is not contrition, it is lame equivocation.
From his statement:
I must acknowledge, however, that one particularly complex situation clouded my judgment and led me to imprudent decisions with harmful consequences, the worst of which was violating the boundaries of chastity with an adult female who was under my spiritual care.
I take full responsibility for my own poor judgment, my weakness and my sinful conduct that resulted from it. I offer no excuse for my professional or moral failures, nor do I shift the blame to anyone else. I state without reserve that I am deeply sorry for my actions. I have personally apologized, where possible, to anyone I have harmed. I am saddened beyond words for my fall, not only because of the harm done to my priesthood and my family, but also because of the harm done to all others who are affected, to the faith of those who placed so much trust in me and our Church, and to the pro-life movement so populated with heroic, faithful people. I must face and make amends for the disappointment I have caused.
...I therefore affirm and will never deviate from my affirmation that the following are true:
* My violations of chastity were limited to one person only, an adult woman;
* The violations of chastity happened due to human weakness but did not involve the sexual act;
*The accusation that I targeted vulnerable women or otherwise sought them out for spiritual direction is utterly false and a serious defamation of my character and ministry;