celebacy in the priesthood does not go back to the beginnings of the church by any stretch.
When talking to my parish priest about family matters I was struck by how the priest just did not get it....he was completely unaware of such problems.
So lets say I want to be married and be a priest....I could become an Anglican priest, get married, then decide to join the Catholic Church as a priest and bingo...married priest...
these is just so much confusion regarding this issue.
Could it be something so simple like what you describe? No, can't be. There must be a conspiracy or other salacious story...the press - UGH.