Good.
As per St. Augustine:
"For it is illicit and shameful for a man to lie with even his lawful wife in such a way as to prevent the conception of offspring. This is what Onan, son of Judah, used to do; and for that God slew him" (cf. Gen. 38: 8-10).
Obviously, the Church Fathers saw the prohibition against contraception as SRIPTURAL. So why have the Orthodox changed a teaching of moral theology that was not merely a disciplinary canon but that was based on Scripture according to the Church Fathers?
Good.
As per St. Augustine:
You can stop right there, Doc. Saint Augustine is not to be confused with Scripture.
Keeping that in mind will make your discussions with Orthodox go much smoother.